Be kind…..to others and to yourself…….

“Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see”

Recently, I have come across a lot of people being mean to each other: whether it be in real life or social media. I have been wondering why? Why can’t people be kind to each other? Is it that difficult?

Being kind has become a rare occasion that when it happens, people are shocked and it becomes the latest trendy news on social media and is labelled as “act of kindness”.

Imagine….if all the people in the world participated in this “act of kindness” how better place the world would be. One act of kindness per day can change their whole day for better.

Simply holding the door for someone whose hands are full, saying “thank you, have a nice day” to someone who served you coffee in a coffee shop, saying thanks to your driver, tipping little extra to waiters if they did a good job and being patient with those who messed it up. We are all humans and we are meant to make mistakes. No one’s perfect.  Just because someone accidentally screw up doesn’t mean they don’t deserve kindness.

Just because you are having a bad day doesn’t mean you need to be mean those around you. Be someone that even when you have a bad day, you are still kind to others. Being kind doesn’t make you weak; it makes you strong.

Even if someone is mean to you because of their bad day still be kind to them. When people are unkind to others, they are the ones who most need kindness from others. Believe me, being kind is the best reaction to someone who’s being mean. It startles them and makes them rethink about their behaviour.

And last but not least ” Be kind to yourself”. You deserve it. When you are not good at some thing, when you don’t meet yours expectations or people’s expectations; don’t be hard on yourself. Be kind, accept that you are not perfect and work through it and improve yourself.

 

 

 

 

 

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Mixed Emotions….

People often see mixed emotions as undesirable or people having them are often referred as wishy washy and indecisive.

But I don’t think it is…… They are emotions. They are meant to be like that….U can’t be in same emotion constantly……

People who express mixed feelings are better able to differentiate their emotions.

A mess is more beautiful❤

You may have different kind of emotions or feelings towards the same thing or same person….

You don’t have to figure out the reason for each one ……

And don’t have to try to feel same all the time…..

Just let it be whatever it is…❤ Enjoy the mess❤

_ Jahnavi Chowdary.

She💝

She is delicate like a flower and at the same time she is strong and resilient like a tree. There is certain balance that only a woman like her can manage. No matter what happens, you can never pull her roots.

_ Jahnavi Chowdary…

THE BUTTERFLY

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Here comes my 1st favourite story…….

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared. He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole until it suddenly stopped making any progress and looked like it was stuck.

So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily, although it had a swollen body and small, shrivelled wings.

The man didn’t think anything of it and sat there waiting for the wings to enlarge to support the butterfly. But that didn’t happen. The butterfly spent the rest of it’s life unable to fly, crawling around with tiny wings and a swollen body.

Despite the kind heart of the man, he didn’t understand that the restricting cocoon and the struggle needed by the butterfly to get itself though the small opening; were god’s way of forcing fluid from the body of butterfly to it’s wings. To prepare itself for flying once it was out of the cocoon.

Moral of the story: Our struggles in our life develop our strengths. Without our struggle we never grow and we never get stronger, so it’s important for us to tackle challenges on our own, and not by relying on help from others.

THE GROUP OF FROGS

On first note, I’m really sorry for taking such a long break. I seriously hope this is gonna be my last lengthy break… will share my thoughts with you people as frequently as possible.

I promised to share my 3 favourite short stories with you people and I already shared my 3rd favourite one.

Here is my 2nd favourite story……

As a group of frogs was travelling through the woods, two of them fell into a deep pit. When the other frogs crowded around the pit and saw how deep it was, they told the two frogs that there was no hope left for them.

However, the two frogs decided to ignore what the others were saying and they proceeded to try and jump out of the pit. Despite their efforts, the group of of frogs at the top of the pit were still saying that they should just give up. That they would never make it out.

Eventually, one of the frogs took heed to what the others were saying and he gave up, falling down to his death. The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die.

He jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the other frogs said, “DID YOU NOT HEAR US?”

The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him, the entire time.

Moral of the story: People’s words can have a big effect on other’s lives. Think about what you say before it comes out of your mouth. It might just be the difference between life and death. 

Thinking Out of Box…

I have been reading plenty of short stories from last few days for some unknown reason and found the moral of some of those stories truly inspirational. So I have decided to share the best 3 stories I’ve read….

THINKING OUT OF BOX…..

In a small Italian town, hundreds of years ago, a small business owner owed a large sum of money to a loan-shark. The loan- shark was a very old, unattractive guy that just so happened to fancy the business owner’s daughter.

He decided to offer the businessman a deal that would completely wipe out the debt he owed him. However, the catch was that he would only wipe out the debt if he could marry the businessman’s daughter. Needless to say, this proposal was met with a look of disgust.

The loan-shark said that he would place two pebbles into a bag, one white and one black. The daughter would then have to reach into the bag and pick out a pebble. If it was black, the debt would be wiped, but the loan-shark would then marry her. If it was white, the debt would also be wiped, but the daughter wouldn’t have to marry loan-shark.

Standing on a pebble-strewn path in the businessman’s garden, the loan- shark bent over and picked up two pebbles. Whilst he was picking them up, the daughter noticed that he’d picked up two black pebbles and placed them both into the bag.

He then asked the daughter to reach into the bag and pick one.

The daughter naturally had three choices as to what she could have done;

  1. Refuse to pick a pebble from the bag.
  2. Take both pebbles out of the bag and expose the loan-shark for cheating.
  3. Pick a pebble from the bag fully well knowing it was black and sacrifice herself for her father’s freedom.

She drew out a pebble from the bag, and before looking at it ‘accidentally’ dropped it into the midst of the other pebbles. She said to the loan-shark;

” Oh, how clumsy of me. Never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked.”

The pebble left in the bag is obviously black, and seeing as the loan- shark didn’t want to be exposed, he had to play along as if the pebble the daughter dropped was white and clear her father’s debt.

It’s always possible to overcome a tough situation through out of the box thinking and not give into the only options you have to pick from.

Well, this is my 3 rd favourite one and  I will share my 1 st and 2nd favourites in my next posts.